POST HSYTERECTOMY MAYHEM

As some of you may know I had a hysterectomy in January this year after almost 10 years of irregular bleeding and endless appointments and procedures at the gynaecology department (had my own parking bay and stirrups). I fought extremely hard to keep my healthy and functioning ovaries as they are still beneficial to my well-being by producing oestrogen (although gynaecologist didn't have a clue what I was talking about!). The operation went as well as could be expected accept for my adverse reaction to the anaesthetic resulting in my doing a Reagan from the exorcist, projectile vomiting for near on 12 hours post surgery. Not what you need when you've just had your uterus removed and fear what remains may flop from the cavity between your legs with every wretch! This however is not the subject of this post. What I'd like to address is the hormonal turmoil which ensued resulting in my slumping back into the front line trenches of menopause. 

It was around week 7 post menopause that i noticed my mood and emotions beginning to wobble. Up to this point I had recovered physically the best i could in my circumstances, a single mum of 2 teenagers at home, solely responsible for there care, financial support and every other role usually provided by a father, grand parents, Aunties and Uncles. In a nut shell I am alone, completely (that's a whole other blog believe me!). As i run my own small business painting furniture to provide for the household I had a work diary that I had re-jigged in order for my being able to take the last minute hysterectomy operation date i'd been offered. This meant that I had to get back to work ASAP so as not to, 1. Piss off clients. 2.Stay on top of my already cluttered diary.3.Keep a roof over our heads! If you are not aware furniture painting isn't just a case of wafting a paint brush about it involves allot of demand physically, positioning hefty pieces of furniture about to paint and getting into all types of positions to paint them, dependent on workspace (painting furniture too is a whole different blog!). The point I'm making here is i'd just had major surgery and was now throwing my weight about like a pole dancer and as if that wasn't tough enough the mental symptoms of menopause then decided to smack me around the back of the head with a frying pan sized uterus!

It started with the anxiety levels soaring sky high which i initially put down to the stress of the heavy work load etc, which lets admit it played a part. However, that old familiar feeling of being over whelmed crashed down on me like a tsunami and the tears started flowing and I realised, Holy shit I'm in trouble here. This was pre Covid lock down and school closures and it was when this was put into place it really became apparent that my rational was being savaged by my hormones. I wasn't concerned with getting infected or being unable to meet up with others and being house bound. Lets be honest i'd been isolated with no life and two children since i'd split with the children's Dad 9 yrs previous (no choice in that matter, he was addicted to heroin, crack and alcohol, which blew our little family unit to smithereens, but that's yet another whole other blog!). Insomnia had set in by by now and extreme mood swings. It all came to a head when i was having a lock down BBQ in the garden with the kids and my eldest who's 30 (don't ask...yet ANOTHER whole other blog!), not living at home but came back to join our 'bubble', but I just could not leave me bedroom for fear, anxiety, dread, agitation, exhaustion, feeling of impending doom, paranoia, guilt, anger....all the undeniable symptoms of menopause. I knew then I was up shit street with no data for google maps.

With the penny dropping I knew I was going to have a fight on my hands to be heard at the GP's as menopause means NOTHING to them. Untrained, un-knowledgeable, full of fear GP's just do not know what to do with women in menopause at my surgery. Feeling like hiding in a rabbit hole, curling up and waiting to be swallowed up by a fox whole I knew I was going to have to contact he menopause clinic i was under (which for the record I again had to fight to get referred too but that, you guessed it, is whole other blog. Hold on scrap that! If you look in past posts you can watch my demise as i attempt to get my clinic referral of which I filmed!). I just went straight in with a no nonsense email to the clinic which did result to my utter disbelief and relief, a response! I managed to get a telephone appointment after I had stressed in email how absolutely annihilated and left unsupported I was feeling with menopause symptoms after the hysterectomy. The Dr who called listened, believed me, 2 crucial factors in menopause treatment, and was able to offer help. I've only been feeling back to anywhere near level emotionally and mentally in the past 4 weeks.

My point of this post is that although, and importantly so, there is allot of discussion pre and post op relating to the recovery process of the major physical surgery, I had NO counselling or discussions regarding possible menopause symptoms and possible treatment options to manage them. Now as I know my ovaries, I mean onions, self educated I might add, prior to the hysterectomy I had already gone and got a diagnosis for menopause which I am aware, is unbelievably hard for some women to get. That said, I went for 4 yrs un-diagnosed although I presented all symptoms of menopause and none of the GP's joined the dots.... I DID! SO, I was already using HRT which again is another fight we women have to go through. But most women are going into these operations having everything removed with no discussion, even when ovaries may be healthy, and are then left floundering in the unknown dangerous seas of menopause with no means of navigation. And when I say dangerous I'm not exaggerating it's no wonder women's suicide rates increase in their 50's this can not be a coincidence surely! 

I can not believe in 2020 women are being neglected in this way and there seems to be no where to go with it. The GP's are often unhelpful and have a fear of menopause and HRT due to lack of training and knowledge. These mental and emotional symptoms that are tearing women to shreds are not deemed important and shockingly do not warrant an emergency appointment at GP surgeries!. Half the population are women and we have to get this put right. There are brilliant, wonderful, pioneering women out here bringing menopause issues to the fore front at present. Diane Danzebrink with the fantastic, Make Menopause Matter campaign which started in 2018, Menopause Support web site. PLUS, the now bursting at the seams Facebook page, The Menopause Support Network. Also, Dr Louise Newson with the Menopause Dr web site and the new Balance app you can use to track menopause symptoms. I try my best to do my bit with my Twitter account and blog,I even took my menopause clinic review telephone appointment in Asda at the fish counter educating not only shoppers on HRT and hysterectomy, but even the sea bass had an expression of intrigue (I did notice a shelf of caviar fall and roll off rather speedily, weird that!). I just feel compelled to help with the campaign to get better treatment for women in menopause healthcare and women's healthcare in general! All I can do is tell my story and help raise awareness because I do not want my daughters to have the same soul destroying experience I and millions of other women around the world are having! Listen, I'm no expert or professional I'm just a woman in menopause but hopefully some of you will relate and take action if not only for yourselves, but for all the other women suffering around the world by becoming in your own little way a part of the menopause movement!

Hysterectomy video 7. Week 4 recovery

I’m not sure if it’s hormone related but have definitely felt some changes in mood, emotional and mental state. Akin to menopause symptoms, the ones I had pre HRT, wondering if I’d I need to up my oestrogen dosage. I had my ovaries conserved so shouldn’t be surgical menopause. However there’s a good chance my hormones may be fluctuation post op. Of course I have no idea as like I’ve stated before no one gave me any advice on menopause/HRT pre or post operation although asked many people. Watch this space.

Hysterectomy video 6. Day 9 recovery

Not had allot to report so left it a few days until now. 

Hysterectomy video 5. Recovery day 4

Today I definitely feel I’ve turned a corner! 😀

Hysterectomy video 4. Day 3 recovery

Here’s the latest on my hysterectomy story!

Hysterectomy video 3. Post op 48hrs

I’ve now made it home and am laid up in bed hopefully to start my recovery! I’ll continue with the video diary during my recovery.

Hysterectomy video 2. Post op 24hrs

7.00am
I had my surgery yesterday at 12.15 and was taken up to the ward about 2.15pm. I was sick up to 11.00pm, when we finally found an anti-sickness drug that worked. Not a pretty sight as you can imagine. Once I felt better I told the nurse I was going to use my HRT oestrogen gel and she advised not to until I spoke to dr today. I explained I’d used it for nearly three yrs so intended on using it and I did. From what I’ve experienced so far, I don’t see the point waiting to talk to a dr when they seem totally ill informed and disinterested in discussing menopause and HRT it fully.

Hysterectomy Video Diary 1. Pre op

PLEASE RETWEET TO RAISE AWARENESS!
I decided to keep a video diary to record how my hysterectomy effects my menopause. I’m having my ovaries and cervix kept, so it’s removal of womb only. I’m already in n peri menopause and taking HRT. The effect of surgery on menopause  has not been discussed in depth, it’s been touched on very briefly. I had two consultations pre surgery one of which I requested to discuss menopause and HRT. It had still not been addressed fully to which I’m astounded.

Presently my HRT is managing my many menopause symptoms well both physically and mentally. Follow my diary to see how/if my menopause is effected and how menopause and HRT is dealt with post surgery.

Menopause Clinic! I’ve been to clinic! Part 6

For those who watched me as a women on the edge, trying to get a Menopause Clinic  appointment, I’VE BEEN.!

Part 6 (previous video clips on blog site in Part 1)

Fobbed off no more! Video Diary #makemenopausematter

When I originally set this blog up it was a kind of tongue in cheek story of a menopausal women. Thing is, menopause is no joke and needs taking seriously. I’ve been peri menopausal for nearly 6 yrs and I’m having the most horrendous time. 

I’ve decided enough is enough and I want referring to a menopause clinic to get this dealt with properly. I’ve decided to make a video diary to record my journey. Let’s see how I get on with getting to the clinic. The filmings a little rough but I know there’s thousands of you out there in the same situation as me and we all need to be heard! I’m very much on board with the #makemenopausematter campaign and this is my contribution to the cause. 

Wish me luck! 

Part 1

Part 2

Part 3

Part 4

Part 5

Maggie Oliver the Unsung Heroine......

If I do not spill out my feelings and thoughts today over this keyboard, I do believe I will literally implode with rage, sadness, hopelessness and hopefulness. Who would have thought that one Celebrity Big Brother eviction could stir up such a rage within. I'm just a humble single mum doing my best to raise my children the best way I know how alone. I hold no position of power or the ability to influence beyond my own front door, but my God what has stirred in me today seems irrepressible.

Maggie Oliver, a simple name one however that will be etched into my brain for ever. This years CBB theme is The Year of the Woman, a refreshing and fascinating format change to the usual CBB formula. Admittedly, I am a die hard fan of Big Brother be it celebrity or just us plain old civilians incarcerated. Usually I watch just for the intrigue of people watching, I'm not that fussed who wins. But last night was an eviction of a housemate that has seemed to rocked me down to my foundations.
Maggie Oliver. The police woman who worked relentlessly along side another woman to bring a stop to the grooming of girls in Rochdale. Why is she in CBB house? She's not a Celebrity! No, but if there were ever a woman to be celebrated in this house it's Maggie Oliver. This heroic woman fought against the odds to be heard and for the sake of young women that were being badly abused.  She was acting how a member of the police force should, she was protecting the public. And how was Maggie Oliver thanked? Well she wasn't, she was in fact forced to resign from her job in the Police Force. This woman was not acknowledged and rewarded or decorated for what she had achieved. She was shockingly shut down and silenced.

Now, in order for Maggie to be evicted from the CBB house fellow housemates had to nominate her. Maggie had no nominations from any of her housemates. She was given nomination as a result of housemate, Ann Widdecombe, winning a task and being given the power to relieve a housemate from nomination. She then had to nominate another housemate ,which was Maggie to the shock and disbelief of the her fellow housemates, and the viewers. Ann Widdecombes reasons were in my opinion invalid and hugely hypocritical. This however is not the thing that has enraged me and left me feeling all out of sorts still the following day. My problem is how CBB ironically exhibited how someone in power can shut down the power-less, and the irony of it being a politician over a (now) civilian. This i believe is more powerful than they could have imagined when planning this years theme.

Here's my massive problem. Maggie Oliver when doing her job was repeatedly hitting brick walls, attempts made to shut her down, silence her.  Thank God for Maggies bravery, persistence and tenacity for the sake of those abused girls. Maggie managed to create a crack in those concrete walls created by people with power and money.  She managed to create a space just wide enough to infiltrate the closed ranks ultimately making it near on impossible to ignore her and her colleague. She would not go away, Maggie Oliver was fundamental in the arrest and charging of a group of men grooming young girls. This in my book not took only astonishing guts but complete commitment to those girls, in her role as a police woman to protect them. This is what the police are supposed to be for, this is their role in our society.  It is a disgrace that she was batted away continuously whilst trying to for fill her job description as a police woman.

I have a close friend who was horrifically abused from a very early age for a number of years. She has never been able to do anything about it, she has been silenced, had her hands tied by those in power. After many years of horrendous emotional struggle she dug deep for the bravery to approach the authorities.  Initially she was listened too and a case opened only for it to suddenly be stopped in its tracks and shut down with a senseless excuse. If she had been heard by Maggie Oliver her story may be completely different now.  But there are not enough Maggie Oliver's and my friend along with many other children and adults who have, and are being abused are left with a voice that won't be heard. This makes my gut twist with anger at the scale of injustice.

The Big Brother house ultimately failed as being the year of the woman with Maggie Oliver being voted out 3rd.  Her presence in the house clearly flying over the heads of the voting viewers. Wether or not Maggie Oliver won this series is in my eyes irrelevant.  The relevance however is huge if this gives Maggie Oliver the platform to tell her story, exposing the abuse of power in places of hierarchy shutting down the powerless. The places that we are taught are there to protect us such as the police force, the army, the navy the house of commons, places of care for the young and elderly.  The tiny divide Maggie Oliver made could be the simple wedge that needs tapping on to blow these walls apart putting them under the microscope.

In these times of  'Me Too' involving movie stars, directors and the likes, surely the wellbeing and safety of our own flesh and blood, the child  next door, the adult living with the scars of mental and physical abuse is imperative. This is the time for the Maggie Oliver's in our society to be heard. Like I've said I'm no political expert, or activist I'm just a single Mum who's been drastically affected by a series of CBB, sounds ridiculous I know.  If nothing else comes of Maggie Oliver's visit to the house, Big Brother can be rest assured that the Year of the Woman series has got this woman's, and I pray many others, backsides up and down to the polling stations to vote again and again and again. The suffragettes fought for our right 100 yrs ago and this is bigger than Big Brother, this needs changing from the top and there's no more time to waste.

MENOPAUSAL FOG. FACT OR FICTION?

Now I've never been an organised Annie and have been known to attend appointments the wrong date but right time, or vice versa. I'd think that's what I'd heard/read three weeks prior and won't bother to check, that's how I roll, badly I admit. I am convinced that the menopausal fog exists. I find my self in the middle of a sentence when.....? I can be in mid flow and suddenly I can't remember the bloody word I wanted to use and instead of styling it and replacing it with another, I shall stand there stammering and stuttering, scratching my head 'What's the bloody word?', while the person I'm conversing with stands guessing as I shake my head vigorously, 'No not that, like that, but different!'. It can go on for hours! I'm aware we all have the usual, for instance going upstairs then standing in the bedroom or bathroom not knowing what the fuck your doing there is a classic. You know no matter how long you stand there, unless you run back down those pissing stairs, you're never going to remember. It's as though the bottom banister post is a memory jogging device and as soon as you place your hand on it you shout 'Bollocks, toilet rolls!'. At this point I usually knock the mound of coats and bags piled high onto the floor screaming 'If I've said it once I've said it a thousand times stop dumping your shit here! Hang it up on the pissing pegs!'. You then  pivot round and breathlessly head back up. Or, if you're like me you'll be sat on downstairs toilet with your knickers round your ankles ' bollocks toilet roll!'.

 Then there's trudging out to face the ordeal of the 'big shop' having spent a week practically adding goods to the list that I've placed on fridge, using a parrot magnet from Tenerife with its tail missing and no beak left to speak of (ha! do you get it, I surprise myself sometimes!). I even have a pen holder I've devised from blue tack, cat hairs, and something hard that I can't identify which pokes out the side (I thinks its a Cheerio but I'm to scared to stick my tongue on it to taste). Top tip, always place pen nib down as bastard pen won't work. I rummage through my 100 bags for life, picking out my favourites, the most practical. The one from M&S, its getting shabby but got the bottle slots in end, its a keeper. My Sainsbury's Xmas one with Rudolph on front, his nose no longer lights up but the bags broken in nicely making it flexible for when a speedy bag change over is required at the tills. Waitrose, well because its Waitrose even if it does have holes worn in the corners and only one handle, one likes to keep up appearances. You know, the favourites. I always aim for the supermarket between 10 and 2,  quiet time and offering prime parking. The golden oldies having been and gone up with the larks, and Mums are heading back in time for the school pick up. Of course I cover both of those categories but I'm a rarity, there's not many idiots who timed there child bearing as appallingly as I.  Once parked I remove my precious trolley token hidden away in the back of the disused ashtray behind a euro, hairy hair bands and half melted wine gum. All of which are strategically placed to stop sticky fingers trying their luck (sticky fingers, wine gum, do you get it? I'm on fire today!). So, I've got my trolley I'm armed with my fave shopping bags, I've got my parking hot spot......hold on. I'VE FORGOTTEN THE EFFIN LIST. I then have to shop unguided, needless to say we lived on Tena Lady and Nutella that week. Still, least it will shake up the kids packed lunches. Now, many may say that all this happens all the time, and it does, but only as you get older!

 Another thing I've become aware of is I can not concentrate on anything. A film, T.V, reading a book,even listening to my children talking to me which is a rarity. Eagerly they'll be sharing an exciting event which happened at school where apparently fuck all happens, ever, when I ask. But recently I find myself secretly thinking hurry up your boring the shit out of me and I can't keep this interested nodding act up for much longer (don't you lot make out it's just me). In fact I've got to the point where I only read magazines full of tat, the longest story line I can handle on a screen are the telly ads.  Maybe my patience levels have now dropped down to zero. Maybe nothing holds my attention as I am now at an age where I am so wise and knowledgeable that nothing is interesting or stimulating enough for my brain to retain! By Jove I think I've cracked it! This is not menopausal fog this is self awareness, self appreciation, self indulgence! Nothing else matters except me and its about fucking time, it's only taken me 49 yrs (50 this yr!) to realise it! 

Back soon Mave x

P.S. Or rather note to self, need toilet roll and Tena ladies.




 

BANK HOLIDAYS, WHO GIVES A SHIT!

I hate the bank holidays! There once was a time when they were known as a BONK holiday in my life.  Now they're just an extended shitty weekend with two Sundays. If I had any family to speak of, or a job that demanded all my time, I'm sure I'd be jumping for joy at the prospect of one.  I have neither so can't stand them, just another gap at the end of a week in which all routine and boundaries are non exsistant.

This weekend however I found my doing as others do, making plans, trying to look forward to it etc. It started with an impromptu BBQ on the Friday which goes against all I believe in. I cannot commit which means everything I do is last minute.com but then I hate not being organised. I'm a walking talking contradiction making my own life a fucking misery. Now the idea of a BBQ is all very nice except I don't want any guests and I don't want to do the cooking. See my problem? Well apply that to every aspect of my life and you'll get an idea of what I'm dealing with. My eldest always says I need to loosen up, easy to say when you're the one sat with your feet up swigging your cider watching me run between three BBQ's trying to get one bastard coal to turn white. It took 3 hours to cook any food and even then I tossed it all on a tray in the oven. I must say the three guests I had were all very understanding saying how it didn't matter and there was no rush. If your sat on your fat arse lashing back the alcohol whilst some other Jo does all the hard work I can see their point! I could feel myself getting all Reggie Kray (or Ronnie, which one was madder?), wanting to push their faces onto the hot mesh surface of the BBQ.  Would have been pointless though as there was not enough heat to even muster a blister.

The next day after my failed BBQ (I would qualify being ravenous and wanting to badly burn all guests as a failure), I went to a music festival that was being held in my city. It will be alright i said, I'm taking the kids, all good. I bought the tickets in the morning after a, do I, don't I frenzy in true non committal fashion. Surprisingly enough the printer worked and I had no need to kick the shit out of it after turning it on and off, reinstalling it 25 times as it took 8 hours from my life I would never get back.  An iphone took this recently as I tried to reset it to factory settings, 8 hours, that's a whole working day. Apple owe me a days salary the dicks, and the phone never reset.

After arriving at festival I spent the first 30 minutes in a state of high anxiety. Why was there so many people all ambling about in different directions! I realised pretty soon that I wasn't going to beat them so I may as well join them. Straight to the packed bar I headed after marking my territory with a huge blanket to sit on. Gin and tonic as dictated by Slimming World was not going to cut it today. I was not queueing for 20 mins for a small amount of liquid I would consume before I got to sit back down. Instead I opted for Cider, a pint of, which after having made it back to my marked territory through what I would describe as a human banger race, my 10 yr old promptly kicked over. In fact the words 'You fucking idiot!' rang across the mayhem momentarily silencing the mania surrounding me.  After a few hours of trying to pretend I was sorry and chilled and it wasn't her fault I had the kids collected from the main gate and I headed straight back to the bar demanding a Jager Bomb (I think that's what it is, except I ask if can just have the Jager as the bomb keeps me up all night and we can't have that can we).

Can I just make a suggestion to all festival organisers. Can we have family toilets and wreck head toilets. This is nothing to do with hygiene and not wanting my precious children's bottoms contaminated by the soiled seats. This is strictly a time thing, I want to pee and get out, so did the kids. Yes I'm a saddo I timed myself 50 seconds, that's all 50 seconds.  Now when you're stuck in ques behind wreck heads taking 3-4 minutes it can get fucking frustrating. Quite frankly if you haven't mastered the art of getting your shit (I mean narcotics not pooh) sorted in under 2 minutes then you are not seasoned enough to be doing it at a festival! Do it in your own time, at home in your own toilet until you're up to speed to go public so to speak! I must say though with the sedative help of the alcohol the rest of the festival went by without a hitch ending in my falling onto the last bus home and trying to portray soberness. I didn't do to badly, when turning a not so sharp corner, at a low speed, a girl fell of her chair and rolled across the floor like an empty can before three other passengers helped her back on her seat. Not me though, I just gnawed the poor cows ears off as I got off at the same stop and saw it as my motherly duty to make sure she got home safe. Think I'll be giving that road a swerve for a while. Shoot me now!

The Sunday and Monday were spent pretending that I was just another normal person enjoying the break and the weather. Walking to the local pub for a Sunday roast and having a hair of dog. Who am I kidding, the gravy was shite and the drink just kicked off the underlying hangover anxiety.  I just wanted to lay in bed, curtains closed, one leg out the quilt coz it's  fucking sweltering outside but I need my comfort blanket over me lessening my venerability. I May even have called my ex to hold on to like a deranged out of sorts limpet that needs some creature comforts. Only by the next day I've straightened out, all my sweaty bedding full of bad hangover memories needs washing, and the ex is a wanker! Thank God its Tuesday, now you don't hear that very often.

Back soon, Mave

P.S I swear the progesterone side to my HRT sends me psycho, to be discussed!

THE ALL CLEAR

Today, I have been given the all clear on a mammogram test after finding a 'lump' in my right boob. Now I know I should be over the moon, relieved, feeling blessed etc but I'm just not! In no shape or form am I undermining the importance of the negative results or the horror of those that receive positive, It's just I feel numb! As selfish and inexplicable as it sounds theres a part of me that thinks now what, I have at least another 35yrs left on this planet and ashamedly right at this moment its not an exciting prospect!

I'm 49 turning 50 this year and I'm sat in an on site Pret A Manger, supping on a decaf skinny latte (Slimming World and trapped wind dictated) in a hospital because I don't want to go home. The sad thing is it's not even the hospital where I had my mammogram appointment, it's another I pass on my way home. I'm feeling like Tom Hanks in The Terminal, I could survive in this hospital quite easily without ever having to leave the building. It's got all facilities and services required (actually they do need to upgrade they're Internet service if I'm to stay, signals shit!) In fact I've often thought of buying some blues off of Ebay, sticking my Crocs on and hanging around the League of Friends to see if I could bag me a Dr. The only thing that puts me off is what if I were called into theatre as an emergency nurse, imagine! There'd be a tuna and cucumber brown roll (dictated by Slimming World) floating about in the abdominal cavity.

Today, is in a way the beginning of the rest of my life and I'm just not feeling it! Why not?! I know my circumstances could be better, single parent to 3 kids, all fathers #abscentfuckwits. I've a history of complicated disastrous relationships all brought on by my appalling decision making when picking men and my delusional expectations of romance which I blame on the film industry. In fact I'm thinking of taking them to the small claims court reimburse me of emotional losses, small claims only goes up to £10,000 though and they've fooked me over big time. I have no extended family to help out, what's it called 'family support' what the hell is that when it's at home?! On paper it does read abysmally (is that even a word? If not it exists on my shitty planet), but as the saying goes 'At least you've got your health'. 

My health. Now apart from being diagnosed with chronic rhinitis, chronic constipation, polyps on my womb, menorrhagia, perimenopause, bad eye sight (every orifice has it's ailment except my ears but my Mum was almost deaf by 60 hoo-rah! What?!) severe skin allergies, moderate depression, anxiety, allergy to temporary fillings, yes you read that right even my mouth blows up if a temporary filling goes in (note to self, add to orifice list). Apart from that my health is tickety-boo! As my own saying goes 'Theres always something wrong with me but it's never bloody life threatening!'. Once again at the risk of sounding ungrateful this means I have to wait for 6-9 months for treatment for anything. Except the mammogram which was arranged in under 2 weeks as it is especially important to get seen, but of course on the day I couldn't find the damned lump myself which I had been prodding and probing for 6 months prior. Sods bloody law! Apparently I have to be careful with my wording the Dr said. It's not a lump it's fat, charming, Mrs old fat tits.

This may not be the start of the rest of my exciting life but what it is,is the start of this Blog. Who knows what I may spew out but one things for sure I'll be spewing. Now I have to get to work, although I was hoping on trying out my home colonic irrigation kit provided kindly by the hospital for my constipation. It will arrive in a discreet brown package the nurse said, don't worry about that I said, I talk to everyone about my pooh problems, even the postman's up to date. Anyway, as the above states I have allot to share, get out there, this is just the tip of the iceberg.

Back soon, Mave

P.S My Tinder notification just pinged. Now there's a whole other story.